Why answer my question with a agenda of your own..ask your guy question somewhere else, this question is here...
By Hellen Chen, Special for USDR Modern dating has become a “revolving-door” situation where men and women change partners so often that in the end, they still could not find out who they should marry.
(I'm assuming you are a young man -- apologies if that's an incorrect assumption.) When I think of all the effort I put into dating when I was young -- dating men with whom I had no hope of a long-term or health relationship -- yep, that was a waste of time.
(Not that I dated abusive or bad guys, they just weren't a good match, and deep down I knew it.) I think the key word here is "chasing." If you mean pursuing women who are not interested in you, or who are shallow and who don’t appreciate good qualities in a man (compatibility, honesty, kindness, reliability, etc.) I’d say that’s clearly a waste of time.
My girlfriend told me that he friend never liked him, and was just in it for the free...
Why don't women just straight up say "I'm not interested" instead of going on a date, and wasting a guys time/money?
But love/lust WILL blind you if you let it.)If you are simply dating women – enjoying their company, getting to know them, and maybe learning about yourself in the process – and these women appreciate you for who you are, then that’s not a waste of time. It may not be time spent “productively” in terms of getting ahead or earning money, but life’s about much more than that.
As you can imagine it get’s hard for men to hook up with women using Adult Dating Sites.
That being said I know that there are several LEGIT and RELIABLE sex dating sites which actually work.
Ironically enough, if you could take the best of those women and the best of those men, and place them in a big room where they could sit at a table and ask each other questions in person – you’d probably have 4 or 5 new match-ups by the end of the night. All they have to do is get online every day, sitting on their princess throne and file through the dozens or more profiles of men who have messaged them throughout the day.
The problem with online dating is that you can’t see the person’s face when they’re telling you about themselves. I think it’s hard for guys to comprehend the world of online dating from a woman’s perspective. They then flippantly toss out all of those well thought out, carefully crafted messages from most of those poor schmucks, and then they log onto their Facebook accounts to complain to their girlfriends that there are no “good men” left in the world.
My girlfriend told me that he friend never liked him, and was just in it for the free meals....women really?